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Brown-skinned, pug-nosed, petite, brunette, loving, charming, sweet and caring, these are the common traits of a typical Filipina that some foreign men is searching for.
"Filipina" refers to Filipino woman or female native of the Philippines, "Filipino" refers to both male and female, "Pinay" in tagalog slang, so don't
be confused. the word "Filipina" only appears in Filipino English, but sometimes
used by some English-speaking people as far as I am concerned.
The Filipino women today know they have edge when it comes to searching for white men to be their future husband over the cyberspace, aside from their physical features, Filipino women can be good wives, they will treat their husbands like a king, they love to do their roles as wives such as cooking and preparing luscious meals when their husbands arrive from work, washing and preparing the clothes before their husbands leave for work and the same goes for their children. Sometimes, they love to pamper you by means of their therapeutic touch.
Dating websites have huge selection of women who are searching for foreign men for short or long term relationship that will lead to matrimony; the number of its members continuously expanding, the sad truth is, not all of them there are looking for genuine love, many are dreaming of making you as their future walking ATM, why?, it only takes a short period of time of chatting, an impatient pretender starts extorting money from you, many of them endowed with OSCAR-like acting prowess; Don't be surprised if they start making drama regarding their family and relatives,etc. like:
- Her father or mother, etc. rushed to hospital, she insists they have no money for hospitalization fee.(Even no one of her immediate family or relatives have brought to the hospital, it's easy to )
- She has to pay the matriculation fee of her sister or brother.
- She has to pay her matriculation fee (Even she's not studying anymore, sometimes, if she's in relationship with Filipino guy, she'll give the money to boyfriend of hers instead, Besides, she's reluctant of showing any proof of payment.)
- Their house was burned. (She's unwilling to give the exact details of their place, for fear that you will call the authorities to clear this.)
- She will continue asking for money for her utility bills or any sort of luxuries and also for her boyfriend occasionally.
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These are the common complaints my husband and my elder friend's husband encountered from the past few years. Yes! me and my friend were married to Caucasian men.
"You're handsome(Gwapo)", "I love you (Mahal kita)", "I can't wait to be with you", "take care", "I care for you", pleasant to the ears, right?, these words are commonly used by Filipina scammers to be easy for them to lure and get what they want from their victims. Some of them are desperate of extorting money, they will solicit for cyber pleasure, they won't hesitate to show their bodies. Put in mind that no one will love you in just one day, it's a good idea that you'll be friends at first until both of you will feel you're meant for each other.
Genuine Filipina has forbearance to wait for you no matter how long it is. If she hurries you to bring her to your country after few chats, blatantly she's just after Visa; my former colleague used to be like that, she's wondering why men left her with nothing. Genuine Filipina will ask you to come to the Philippines to meet her family, relatives and friends, aside from she will be happy to see and speak with your family and relatives overseas. A decent Filipina won't take off her clothes in webcam nor requesting cash from you unless you have already met her in person and you are pretty sure you get the right lady.
Few years ago, when I signed up to a dating site and started to use it, few white men wrote on their profile "I'm looking for asian lady...except lady from the Philippines", I was extremely offended because I believe we are not the same, despite of it I cannot blame them. These Filipina scammers ruin the reputation of good Filipino women.
Here in the Philippines, many people here think that foreigners are moneyed, let's say when you exchange Dollar to Peso or British Pound to Peso (you know what I mean). Expect the unexpected, when you marry a Filipino women, some families or relatives will make sure they will benefit from their daughters' husbands. One day,you will find yourself sending money to her lazy family and relatives; whilst you are working hard for your family, her family is enjoying your money and remain jobless.
Don't let them deceive you by their looks, some Filipina scammers uses fake photos, others have temerity to show their faces on webcam. Even few Filipino men joining the circle of scammers, they won't show on cam, they will use beautiful and undress model's photos, flirt you and extort money.
You have to be patient, wise enough and cognizant of the signs of scam, surely, in the long run, you will find a better Filipina to spend the rest of your life with.
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